His lordship, lord todd wadley

Dear Diary,

Jesse:  About 25 years ago, in the age of paper books, I read a story about a famous woman and her boy doll.  I was totally taken with the story and I never forgot it.  In fact, it was to have a huge influence on my doll play and collecting.

A couple of years ago, I was thinking about the story and I wanted to find it again.  As advancing age and retreating memory does, I couldn't remember any names and I had many of the details mixed up and incorrect.  I remembered the basic story, however, so armed with sparse information, I began the current age Google Search.  It was a hard slog, going down many dead-ends because of my incorrect remembrance of facts and the scarcity of factual information.  I refused to give up and I kept trying all kinds of combinations of information until, at last I found what I was looking for.  Eureka!  This is an abbreviate story about Joe Corsairs and Lord Tod Wadley.  (The information is taken from various internet sites.)

Marion Barbara 'Joe' Carstairs (born 1900, died 18 December 1993) a wealthy British socialite known for her eccentric lifestyle, who became a famous power boat racer famous for her speed.  Because of the huge fortune she had inherited as a young woman, Joe lived life large and fast. Her main interest for many years was racing powerboats and she become well-known as the "fastest woman on water". She was friends with Europe's famous and elite and took her lovers from amoung them.

In 1924, her then-girlfriend, Ruth Baldwin, gave Joe a 12" leather Steiff boy doll whom she named Lord Tod Wadley.  Although Joe and Ruth would not remain a couple for long (but did remain close friends), Lord Todd remained Joe's constant companion for the remainder of her life.

She treated Wadley as her dearest friend and protected him from anyone who might possibly do him harm.  She had expensive Saville Row monogrammed outfits made for him, tiny leather shoes from Italy, Cartier calling cards, stationary, golf clubs, jewellery, cowboy and sailor outfits, a monogrammed gold miniature cigarette case and lighter, a wristwatch that ticked, revolvers, a Bible, a dob, and his own dolls.  She commissioned paintings, sketches and sculptures made of him. There were also the accessories such as furniture and the like which were used in the photo settings.  Lord Tod was dressed and set in tableaux, then photographed and charming captions were added.  Joe placed his name and hers on a plaque at the front door of her flat in Chelsea.

Wadley was Joe's constant companion and he was never far away from her.  However, he never raced on the boats with her for fear of losing him in an accident.  Joe said, "He's me and I'm him. It's a marvellous thing.  If everyone had a Wadley, there'd be less sadness in the world."  In another place she confided, "I was never entirely honest to anyone, except to Wadley."  

Joe Carstairs and Lord Tod Wadley

This photo is from Doyle Auctions Lot 248 and shows some of the items from Cairstairs estate, auctioned 27 January 2016.  The doll is one of Joe's other dolls and is dressed in some of Lord Tod's clothes and accessories.  There were other items in this auction but most are related to Lord Tod Wadley.    The auction lot sold for $8,750 USD.

This is a collaged photograph depicting Wadley in life-size next to a slightly smaller standing Carstairs.

Lord Tod was with Carstairs to the end.  When she died, the two were cremated together and were placed in a tomb by the sea. In 1955, Joe Carstairs wrote "The human touch is often disappointing ... I still maintain that friendship should be true and loyal and rare... so I've chosen one ... half doll half boy half real half toy My mascot Lord Tod Wadley." 

Joe Carstairs, with the Duke and Duchess of Windsor, on Whale Cay, January 1941.  Inset; Lord Tod Wadley.

While visiting Whale Cay, the Duchess of Windsor saw Wadley. ‘Who is that?’ she asked (Joe was impressed that she said ‘who’ rather than ‘what’). Joe introduced her: ‘That’s my boy, that’s Wadley.’ ‘My God,’ said the Duchess, ‘he’s just like my husband.’

Joe Carstairs was a bigger-than-life person with an amazing life story.  I highly recommend to everyone the book The Queen of Whale Cay by Kate Summerscale.  In it, there is not only a fascinating story but also some wonderful photos of Lord Tod Wadley.  The book is available on Amazon both in paperback and Kindle editions.  I have the latter in my library.

Story told.  Point made.


  1. Your blog layout has changed! Thank you for this, their story looks fascinating. Story and point understood as well.

  2. It really is a fascinating story. I was struck by the comment "He's me and I'm him." I do tend to believe that my boys see the world through my eyes, and share my experiences even if they're not with me. I guess we're sort of like the Borg in Star Trek (only not evil).

  3. What a lovely and fascinating story. There are so many wonderful and fascinating people who have disappeared from memory, but as you found, even with just a bit of what you remember and Google searching, they can be brought back. I typed in Marion Barbara and it came up straight away on Wikipedia. I really enjoyed it, but I was rather sad that she had to say ' The human touch is often disappointing... ' but happy that Tod Wadley was a true companion :) x

  4. Well done in finding her and Wadley after starting with just a memory which had taken on a life of it's own over the years.
    A fascinating woman and her best friend, I have to say I had never heard of her but she sounds like a woman ahead of her time .
    I am so glad that her and Wadley were together to the very end.
    Many thanks for bring her to our attention.

  5. Hi Jesse, this is a wonderful piece of history; thank you so much for bringing Joe and Lord Tod to our attention. I love the fact that she was able to identify with a boy doll, as a life mascot and a version of herself. I can't wait to go and find a copy of the book. Thank you!


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